Good Morning Everyone!

Are you stressed today?  Feeling overwhelmed, anxious and worried?  It’s okay to feel these things stress follows us all around.  We’ve all read about the “flight or fight” syndrome our bodies and minds go through when stress comes.  According to www.dictionary.com the word is defined as “a specific response by the body to a stimulus”, or “physical, mental, emotional strain or tension.”  A quick Google search with the word “Stress” yields over 38 million results!  We are stressed sometimes everywhere we look!

At the end of this week I am headed to a spiritual retreat weekend and will bask in the joy of Jesus and I am stressed.  I have a lot to do before I go and certain things I don’t want to forget, so I’ve started a list.  I’m praying and then I look at the list.  It seems odd to me to be stressed out before a spiritual retreat but I believe it’s normal.  We all react differently to different situations and therein lies the key to dealing with stress.  It is in our reaction and the way we see things.  Then on the way home I see a woman sunbather out in front of her home (on highway 39) I thought was odd on a late September day.  Then I thought “what do I do to relax?”  So we went to the movies and I enjoyed “The Equalizer” with Denzel Washington (Not for everybody, pretty graphic).  Movies are my own “time out” and a way to relax.

What do you do to take care of yourself?  How do you relax?  Can you relax?  That’s the deeper question.  And I’m very sure that most if not all of our stress we put on ourselves.  We mentally make the worse situations come real, we beat ourselves up, we put pressure on ourselves and push over and over.  Consistently in my ministry with patients I am offering “permission” to not be where they think they should be or to be doing what they think they should be doing!!  I ask that they be a “patient” patient and rest so that they can mentally and physically help their recovery.  And for you, also, I give you permission to be stressed and just “owning” it deeply reduces it!  What can you let go of?  What can you give away to God?  And maybe the question is why do we heap so much on ourselves?

In Ezekiel 18:32 God encourages Ezekiel by saying “Turn, then, and live”.  Ez is kind of stressed in this chapter and God does what God does best…offering a second chance.  Let’s turn from our stress and live today!  There is much to do-NOT to add to our to do list, NOT to add pressure or stress-these things we “GET” to do we don’t have to do:  time in prayer, helping someone less fortunate, loving one another, donating to help a worthy cause, serving our patients, showing compassion.  And what can we do to help alleviate the stress of someone else?  If we take on some of the stress of someone else we are lightening their load-not adding to ours, subtracting theirs.  To God be the glory, we have an any-time retreat available with the Lord every time and anytime we get stressed!  I went to a pastor’s conference once and on the stage of this auditorium was this huge banner up that said “RELAX, YOU’RE NOT IN CHARGE!”

God bless,

Pr. Doug


Feeling my Age

Hi Friends:

I am not ashamed of my age, I’m 54! I will, however and take note, be 55 soon and very soon!!! (I am very pleased to remind you I “act” much, much younger of course!). Late last week I was at a local retail store and the cashier (who looked like she was 10 or 11) said “I gave you the discount” as she rang up my purchase. “Oh”, I said ever so pleased, “what discount is that?” And the little girl said “It’s our senior citizen discount for people 55 and over”. I just didn’t say anything else and thanked her and figured I am close enough to 55 I’ll take any discount I can get.

Go from this to my mailbox. The AARP folks are after me. You know, they wouldn’t need my donation if they stopped sending me all this junk mail!! I get something from them every other day at least, and I’m being totally serious! Unbelievable…..now they offer some good discounts when you belong….nothing wrong with the organization, it’s just way to much marketing for me. So I’m feeling my age today…..add to that it’s the Autumnal Equinox day today at 10:30 tonight we officially begin Autumn!

I love that season, it’s just the time to mark another change, another calendar change and life moves on at a rapid pace! No matter your age today, physically, emotionally, spiritually we have Good News! Our God is with us and loves us unconditionally, and age/time do not effect our God! In the Bible a verse says “A thousand years in your sight are like a day just gone by…” (Psalm 90:4). Enjoy your age today, you and I will never be this young again!! We don’t need to worry about the rest of our life and it is not up to us to answer all our questions about life…the who, what, where, when and how stuff is God’s. Let go today, friend, and enjoy this day! Tomorrow is all ready for us because God is there, and yesterday is forgiven and forgotten. Above all else, be yourself, you are God’s gift to the world!

Yesterday I was speaking with an “alumni” of our local INKY VDC. He said he hadn’t served in several years mainly because he didn’t know any of the guys anymore he said. He is older, retired and as we talked about VDC I could tell he was “done” with it. He said “Do you think it’s run it’s course?” And I said “No, God in Christ is still calling, still blessing, and still instilling the desire to grow as His disciples!” VDC HAS NOT RUN IT’S COURSE, OF COURSE!!! Burnt out alumni will always be there…..I don’t think I’ve seen him at Ultreya’s and he said he was not in any kind of reunion group. It encourages me to encourage you to reach out in your community! I hope and pray the local and national newsletters reach all our people. If you know of an address or email address change for yourself or another VDC person then let your local Secretariat know! And be aware, look around, pray, and a) always recruit people to come, and b) recruit alumni to come back attend a renewal weekend ( in INKY we offer a spot for a person to go through their weekend again), go to Ultreya, find a reunion group and to get involved.

Our God in Christ continues to guide, and bless our movement literally around the world! Keep on keeping on in your world, no matter your age!!! thank you for all you do to serve the Lord in our VDC!

Grace and Peace,
Pr. Doug
NLS Spiritual Director

On being “welcomed”

Good Day Brothers and Sisters in Christ! Decolores!

Messiah Lutheran Church, Brownsburg, Indiana celebrated 50 years of ministry yesterday. I served there from 2000-2005 and was one of several pastors who returned to a worship service and a luncheon. It was neat to be back and see so many old friends and dear people. As is often the case, a Sunday morning hymn lyric will stick with me all day. Yesterday it was a hymn called “All our welcome” and is a beautiful hymn about welcoming all who come to worship.

Isn’t it wonderful to be “welcomed” when you go somewhere?? Sort of like the Wal-Mart greeters? We have all been somewhere probably where we did not feel welcomed and it’s uncomfortable. We have signs in some of our homes that say “Welcome” and we have “welcome mats” and welcome celebrations. I’m not sure why we say “You’re welcome” after we get a thank you but I digress. According to dictionary.com the word “welcome” means “greeting”. Just greeting one another is all we need to do to welcome them and make someone comfortable.

When I see someone coming down the hall who I don’t recognize I will usually ask them if they need help or directions and I always greet them and introduce myself. You know sometimes this hospital environment is not very welcoming. When we ask a pilgrim to attend a weekend we are giving them the ultimate welcome from Christ. In fact, isn’t that what we do all weekend long? We make them feel “welcomed” and we greet them with handshakes, hugs, palanca, great worship, food and fellowship. Let’s be welcoming and invite someone to attend.

A line or two from the hymn along with the refrain:

“Let us build a house where hands will reach beyond the wood and stone;
To heal and strengthen, serve and teach and live the Word
Here the outcast and the stranger bear the image of God’s face;
Let us bring an end to fear and danger

All our welcome, all our welcome, all our welcome in this place”

We need not look any further than our brother Jesus who welcomed all who came to Him. Nobody turned away. No one “rescheduled”, it was Jesus spreading His arms out on the Cross to die for us and rise again for the ultimate, life giving, eternal welcome. Let’s share that today!

Pr. Doug Givan

Patience is a virtue

Brothers and Sisters in Christ-this is a weekly devotional thought I sent out to the hospital where I work as chaplain.

I went shopping for a battery this weekend.  Pretty boring, huh?  My grass trimmer do-hickey won’t last more than 3 minutes or so and my brother has offered me one of his batteries as a replacement.  But he lives 90 minutes from me and I don’t want to wait so I go out on my own.  I go to the local hardware store and the battery is $40 and I’m mad.  I’m not spending that on a battery when if I’m patient I’ll get one in the next couple weeks.  Meanwhile, I want to find it cheaper and my trimming is overdue in the yard!!

I go to two large “box stores” in my town and each have a battery like I need, but alas, they also are $40!  So we have in my town a little “Thrifty store” that looks like a cross between plumbing, building supplies and farm implements.  I’m not sure who they are trying to draw in but they only have an electric trimmer for $29 which I could do.  As I look at the electric trimmer I remember I’ll need a longer extension cord than what I currently have.  And of course, the 100 foot extension cord is around $10….sigh…I’m up to near $40 again and this time I’ll have to drag around a cord.  All I could picture was me out by the curb 100 feet and 5 inches from the house and not being able to reach the edge and waving to the cars that go by thinking “Look at that guy!”

So another great analogy to the spiritual life isn’t it?  We want what we want and we want it NOW!  Patience anyone?  Do you know the prayer for patience?  “Lord, give me patience and give it to me now!”  I talk about this with almost all the patients I visit….I ask them if they are a “patient patient” and it’s so hard.  Be patient my friend, all good things come to those who wait.  In my life how this works is to remind myself constantly to slow down.  I feel an internal “push” to get to the next thing, do the next job, move to the next moment” and I lose any kind of present moment happiness sometimes.

The Lord models this for us.  Just imagine all the people that begged for His time and attention…..but also notice how often Jesus went up the mountain, or away somewhere, to pray (Matthew 14:23 for example).  When is the last time you just stopped and prayed?  Or stopped to give thanks to God and name 4-5 blessings?  Have you ever visited the chapel for a little quiet time, or to download?? Try it today and be patient first with yourself and then with others and thank God that life is beyond our control!  All we have to do is follow….and wait!  That’s what I’m doing about my battery, I’ll be seeing my brother this weekend and the grass can wait!

Pr. Doug Givan




Musing from the President for February 2014

Grace, peace, mercy, and love from God: Father, Son, Holy Spirit!

I just finished an interesting read: not a fan by Kyle Idleman.  Kyle is a teaching pastor at Southeast Christian Church in Louisville, KY.  The book differentiates fans and followers with the subtitle: Becoming a completely committed follower of Jesus.  I don’t I agree with everything he writes; however, several times during my reading I wondered: “Am I really a follower?”  If Jesus asked me to go and do, as he asked Peter to go prepare the room for the Passover, would I drop everything and “get-er done!”?  Or, would I respond selfishly saying: “Well, I would sure like to help – but – I am not sure I know how!  And, you know I only have a couple of hours open on my calendar in the next couple of weeks!”  An honest, periodic assessment of our relationship with God is a good thing.  The purpose of the weekends we so diligently prepare for are for time away to nurture the relationship of fellow Christians with the God that loves them and desires a deeper relationship with them.

There are so many things happening in our lives these days.  I know in the depths of my being that the God we serve, the creator of all that is seen and unseen, loves us more than we can imagine or ever know.  We all know life is fragile.  Think about the impact of the last perturbation to your schedule and what it did to your life!  Even with a longstanding, deep relationship with God, we are distracted – becoming selfish because after all, it is really all about us!

I don’t know the “trouble you’ve seen, or are currently experiencing.”  I do know that God, in and through Jesus, came to the created, to demonstrate love.  God hasn’t left us alone.  God: Holy Spirit is with us and those that love God are close by to encourage us in our struggles.  Recently, I had the privilege, and honor, to witness a small group of God’s people work to encourage one another in a very difficult situation.  The details are not important.  What is important is they came together in God’s love to nurture and encourage one another to build up the body of Christ.  The task wasn’t easy – it was down right difficult.  However, they put aside their personal agendas with the goal of building up the body of Christ for God’s glory.

May the work of this ministry continue in and through each of us as we pray: “Come Holy Spirit, fill the hearts of your faithful and kindle in us the fire of your love….”

God bless you as you deepen your relationship with God and one another.

In Christ –


Nusings from the president – November 2013

Grace, peace, mercy and love from God: Father; Son; Holy Spirit!

I am amazed that it will soon be Thanksgiving.  I am not really sure where summer went and autumn, well that too is fading into the shadows.  However, I enjoy Thanksgiving.  It was and continues to be a time for family gatherings – a time to just be thankful.  Right now, I would ask you, the reader, to take a moment, maybe four or five minutes, and just “be.”  Be thankful.  Thankful you are where you are.  Not concerned about where you should be – or – could be – or – would like to be.  There is no question, no matter where you are things could be better – and – things could be worse.  Having a thankful heart is difficult, especially when we look at our surroundings and wish.

Please don’t get me started on what I wish for because there are many things I wish were different.  However, there is one thing that I am really thankful for: the ministry God has reminded us we have – being Christ to the people we encounter.  The smile on our face is genuine.  God: Holy Spirit has energized the spirit in our being.  Our actions and lives are not perfect but we are forgiven.  The most exciting thing for me in all of this is somehow, someway God always manages to take my efforts no matter how poorly thought out and make them all work together for good.

As we prepare for this upcoming holiday, I commend Romans 8 to your reading.  I am once again reminded it is all about the journey.  It is being Christ to one another and those around us.  We were energized by our weekend experience to serve God because before the beginning of time, God loved us.  We go into our daily lives knowing God is with us to encourage us and others.

Give thanks with a grateful heart – now and forever!

In Christ –


Musings from the President August 2013

Grace, peace, mercy, and love from God: Father, Son, Holy Spirit!

One week ago we were leaving Palm Beach Atlantic University after a tremendous National Gathering, aka NLS AM 2013. There were seven wonderful worship services…thank you Lord for your Spirit with us – alive and in everything we did. There was a tremendous keynote offered by The Reverend Doctor Al Sager…He challenged us to Come 2 Go! Come and see…then…Go and tell! There were three Forums that were like weekend talks followed by discussion in small groups where stories were related and thoughts abounded. There was the Best Practices Forum where sharing continued and thinking continued regarding living into our life’s journey as a disciple of Jesus Christ.

Once again I was reminded that Via de Cristo is a tremendous ministry, designed by God to facilitate the first three words of the Great Commission: “Go make disciples!” If you were able to attend, I encourage you to review of your notes and re-read the daily newsletter, Conexiones, (there is a link on our home page: viadecristo.org) for nuggets to share with your Secretariat. If you were not able to attend, I encourage your reading of the Conexiones to find nuggets to share with your Secretariat. Yes, there were business meetings but the value of gathering is not in what was done. Rather, it was in sharing and encouraging one another to persevere in our walk with Christ.

There is that word again: Persevere! That word resonated in my head throughout our time together. Persevere, a verb, an action word, to: “Continue in a course of action even in the face of difficulty or with little or no indication of success.” Thank you Ms. Patterson, my fifth grade teacher, for teaching me about verbs! Thank you Lord for the reminder that we continue to persevere knowing your life, death, and resurrection has already won the race.

May God continue to bless our ministry together-

In Christ –


NLS Musings … June 2013

Grace, Peace, mercy, and love from God: Father, Son, Holy Spirit!

It is my joy to bring each of you reading this encouragement from God! What could possibly be better than the certain knowledge and presence of God’s grace, peace, mercy, and love?

Right now my heart is filled to over-flowing with encouragement for each of you that I find it difficult to know where to begin. Following God’s lead, after each of the first five days of creation, God said his work was good. After the sixth day, God said his work was very good! Then God rested… I don’t know where you are in your efforts: with your Secretariat; in your relationship with your family; in regard to _____? You fill in the blank with whatever thing, or things, currently causing you worry, concern, sleeplessness, stomach-churn, etc. Please know God is there! God is present! God will not leave you or forsake you! Persevere for the journey is not complete…

As I read the bible, God continually encourages, guides, directs, instructs (actually coaches) people as life unfolds. We often talk about the relationships in our lives: ours with God; God with us; ours with those that know God; ours with those that aren’t yet in relationship with God; those that we hold close; those that aren’t close; those that we cannot imagine ever getting to know; those we aren’t sure we want to allow to know us! The God of the bible, the creator of the universe, encourages us every step in our continuing journey of discovery. Please know and be encouraged knowing God cares and loves you so much! I trust that as summer unfolds, you will be encouraged in your journey and grow in your relationship with God and others.

May the Lord bless you and keep you; may the Lord make his face shine on you and be gracious to you; may the Lord turn his face toward you and give you peace.

In Christ –


NLS Musings …May 2013

Grace, peace, and mercy from God: Father, Son, Holy Spirit

Some years ago, back in the Jurassic Age (June 1977), I participated in a class focusing on empowering people in the workplace.  The workplace was the military!  At the time it was a very revolutionary topic – empowering people: giving them a voice; preparing them to make decisions that affected the workplace.  This is a concept that many have written about.

Isn’t this what Jesus did with his disciples?  Granted Jesus, as God-Son, was infinitely better prepared to provide the teachings.  He not only knew his disciples from the time of their calling – he had known them from before there was time!  Yet, even Jesus experienced difficulties in mentoring his disciples.  Jesus chastised Peter saying: “Get behind me Satan” (Matthew 16: 23)  The disciples argued “which one of them would be the greatest.” (Luke 9:46)   Gracious!  These fellows were taught and spent time in the presence of the living Lord!  Jesus prepared them to be empowered.  I now have an idea of why God knew he couldn’t leave them, and us, without the Holy Spirit!  Thank you Lord!

As we prepare for and participate in weekend activities, please be reminded that we are working with disciples not very much different from the ones Jesus chose.  We are all fallen and have our own agendas.  Our weekends encourage disciples to continue their journey with God with confidence.  Weekends and follow-on functions encourage us to rely of God, to continue our journey with God together with other brothers and sisters, and to boldly go, empowered with God-Holy Spirit, into the places to shine the light of God’s love.

May we all marvel at the spring – the new growth in all of God’s creation, including the growth in ourselves.

God’s peace, love, and joy to all –


April musings from the president

Good Friday 2013

Grace, peace, mercy, and love from God: Father, Son, Holy Spirit

“There is so much to tell yet my heart is heavy!” I am convinced that’s how Jesus’ disciples felt in the time between his crucifixion and his resurrection. It is difficult for us, on this side of that first Easter, to imagine the emotions the disciples must have felt: sadness, certainly; regret, undoubtedly; fear, absolutely! The more I read and reflect on the last 24 hours of Jesus’ earthly life, the more I am convinced that John, the only male at the foot of the cross, was not yet at the age of accountability. The other disciples were more than likely in hiding because they undoubtedly thought they were next! They, like so many other “revolutionaries,” would experience the same fate as their leader: crucifixion!

Yet, we who are on this side of that first Easter, look past the sadness, probably cannot relate to the regret, and, living in the United States, cannot imagine the fear. We look to the hope and the excitement of the resurrection. God’s love for all creation demonstrated in a very powerful way! What an incredible gift! Thank you Lord!

Isn’t that what a Via de Cristo weekend experience allows? A time to reflect. A time of joy. A time to rekindle hope. A Via de Crusto weekend is a time to once again experience the joy and excitement of the resurrection. A joy that stems from God’s love, tangibly demonstrated, and  a renewed confidence that we serve a risen Lord.

A question for us to ponder – a topic for reflection: What emotions do I (we) experience when I wake in the morning? What emotions do I (we) experience when I (we) leave my (our) Reunion Group? What emotions do I (we) experience when I (we) leave an Ultreya?

I find my journey oscillates between hope / joy / peace and sadness / regret / fear. Thank you Lord for the brothers and sisters you place in my life to encourage me on the journey. Thank you Lord for being there with me…for experiencing events and feelings with me. Thank you Lord for loving me no matter where I am!

May God continue to give us much to tell and a hopeful presence.

In Christ –